Jamie

When I met Jamie, she was with someone else, and I was, how I put it to a friend, ‘Waiting for her’.  Jamie and I finally started dating, and it was an instant match.  It seemed everything was a perfect match.  It was about 3 months after we started dating we looked at getting a house together, and moved in a few months after that.    Since then the house has been in renovation mode, doing small things here and there, and then a big one a few years ago.  In the end, she taught me commitment.  When something works, it just plain works, and we work together.

Taking care of myself.  When I met Jamie, I was working from 8:30AM till 6 or 7pm every night, sometimes without dinner, coming home, eating crap, and drinking coke until 1 or 2 in the morning.  Sometimes more, sometimes less.  I felt like crap.  I was sick, unhappy, moody, just miserable.  When Jamie and I met, and moved in, we started making meals together, going to bed at a decent time, and above all, eating right!  My life changed almost entirely overnight (but generally a week).  I had more energy, mornings where the worst thing in the world to deal with, and there was structure.  It was great.

Clothes,  Funny.  Last night it was made mention that Jamie was a result of about 50% of what clothes I wear.  She corrected my sibling to say it was probably closer to 75%.  I have to agree, and I am happy about that.  Jamie makes me want to look good, and feel good wearing better clothing.  I have a ways to go, but she is supportive about the whole situation, and for that I say thanks.

Sydney.  If you don’t know who Sydney is, your seriously coming to this blog for the first time (hint:scroll down).  Jamie gave me the second best thing (in order of them happening, not importance) since we got married (the first being Jamie herself).  A Baby.  Sydney has changed our lives in so many ways (ALL of them good).  We really don’t know where we would be without her.  Why am I thanking Jamie?  I am generally a selfish person (really, most people are), and the thought of kids scared the hell outta me.  Having Jamie as a partner made me WANT kids with her.  And when it happened, and you hold that girl in your hands, lay her down to sleep, or see her smile when you come home, makes it all worth it.  Jamie did the hard part of whole situation, really, what do men do, rub their back, and then generally complain about it when they do it anyhow.  The birth was quick, and the side effects don’t go away in a day, and for the entire process, I thank her.

I cant get Jamie anything to repay her for what she has given me, there is no sum of money, or object that I can give to repay the debt.  This morning Jamie and I woke up to the day of our 2nd year anniversary.  Some may laugh and  say ‘big deal, its only 2 years’, but to me its the best two years that I have had in my life, and I look forward to the rest of my life with her.

I need a bath?

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Just home from Edmonton, and mom decided to give her some tomatoes/macaroni dish. Lets just say she needed a bath, and some laundry needed to be done when it was finished. She didnt mind, she loves to get dirty and loves her baths, so she was fine.

The entire Easter, Edmonton trip set is here.

Happy Easter

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Morning of easter, and there were EGGS!

Entire Easter, Edmonton trip set is here.

You try getting this off…

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Sydney, playing with Jersey and an empty pop bottle. i guess they figured if they worked together, it might work better.

This is from the Edmonton, Easter set here.